A blog dedicated to Steven Universe, Phantom of the Opera, The Cosmere, Fullmetal Alchemist, Wheel of Time, The Adventure Zone, Good Omens and other fandoms that are ruining my life. I am Nonbinary and I am anti nazi, terf, and truscum.
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even fat people who don’t put a lot of time into their appearance!
even fat people who wear clothes you think are unflattering!
your appearance literally does not make you better than a fat person. you are not more fun to hang out with because you’re not fat. you are not funnier, smarter, or more interesting by virtue of not being fat. you aren’t harder working, you don’t have more self-control, you don’t have your life more together.
the only difference between you and fat people is that they have to put up with a lot of harassment, discrimination, exclusion, and other bullshit that you don’t even think about.
try not to add to it.
Everyone adding “but i DO have more self control than a fat person!!” is a self righteous piece of shit who 1) knows literally nothing about fat science and 2) has been blocked.
Fat people deserve respect. You have not earned the privilege you have over fat people; it’s been given to you by an unfair hierarchical society and you fuckers walking around thinking it’s a meritocracy so you can feel special need to get a fucking clue.
Yes, this applies to fat people who aren’t trying to lose weight!! And fat people who eat more food than you do!! You are not better than them and acting like you are just makes you an ass.
I’ve just gone through and blocked another round of assholes from the notes, and I’d just like to add, as a disabled person with a long list of chronic illnesses, that if you think you’re better than someone else because you think you’re healthier than they are, you are vile.
Your health is not a reward for being a wonderful person, it’s pure fucking chance. It is fucking evil to think you’re superior to someone else because they’re suffering in ways you aren’t.
Also, not all fat people are unhealthy and not all unhealthy people are fat, but even the fattest people whose health problems are connected to their weight are just as worthwhile, interesting, fun to be around, and worthy of dignity as you are. You are not a better person just because your size or health status is different.
You just have the privilege of being catered to in ways fat people aren’t. Don’t think for a moment that you deserve this special treatment or that fat people deserve the harassment, abuse, discrimination, and exclusion our society systemically aims at fat people.
Eating food and not exorcising are morally neutral, stop assigning morality to things that have absolutely nothing to do with how “good” or “bad” a person is
I’ve said this before, possibly even on this post, but this also means throwing out that shitty attitude of “You can tell this was made by cishets for cishets” just because it doesn’t relate to your specific queer experience. I have seen works created by queer creators based on their own experiences get labeled “by cishets for cishets” because it didn’t reflect a particular experience/reflected a different experience from that of those criticizing it. There is no universal queer experience. Just because it’s not YOUR experience doesn’t mean it’s not queer.
My partner, Jazzy, was in a car accident and is no longer able to get themselves to and from work because their car is totaled.
They are amazing incredible person and they are a teacher working really hard to make sure their students get the education they themselves never received about the black community and systemic racism in the US.
Please like, share, boost, or donate if you can!!
Click the link below to donate to their gofundme!
Picture of my partner because they’re cute and you should help them 🥰 thank you!!
My partner, Jazzy, was in a car accident and is no longer able to get themselves to and from work because their car is totaled.
They are amazing incredible person and they are a teacher working really hard to make sure their students get the education they themselves never received about the black community and systemic racism in the US.
Please like, share, boost, or donate if you can!!
Click the link below to donate to their gofundme!
Picture of my partner because they’re cute and you should help them 🥰 thank you!!
ok but……then they went and made this post so what’s the difference really you’re still bragging about it 🤔
Hypocrite bitch
The difference is Sadé isn’t plastering the homeless folks’ faces everywhere and using their identity to uplift their social standing. The issue presented is the camera.
Some questions to ask yourself next time you’re confused while reading: What is the purpose of this post? What is the problem being highlighted? Who does it hurt? How does it hurt? What is this person saying and who are they likely saying it to?
Didn’t know a tweet calling out performative “altruism” is enough to call a random stranger a bitch but y’all aren’t good people on here.
people with she/her pronouns do not owe you femininity. people with they/them pronouns do not owe you androgyny. people with he/him pronouns do not owe you masculinity.
